Thursday, March 15, 2007

Goodness I love that man

So the hubby has had this bump on his back for about 2 years now, when I first noticed it he went to the hospital and gave him Antibiotics and sent him home. That was about a year ago. Well about 5 days ago it started to get bigger (it had never gone away) and he went back to the hospital and they put him on Antibiotics warning him that if he gets a fever or feels sick to come straight back it had been really painful and they said the drugs would help.
Well last night he came to bed and I asked to look at it and it had gotten EVEN BIGGER and had popped and was oozing. Well I started to panic (and lets face it I dry heaved) because they had warned him that if it pops it could get infected and to come back. So he left last night at 11pm to head to the emergency room they took a biopsy of it and carved it out of him. The results will take a little while to come back.
I was scared, I had never seen my hubby like that, the pain was SO bad that he was bent over cursing. Well thank goodness I had AMPLE amounts of Vicodin and any other pain killer you could imagine in storage for occasions just like these. He had been up for over 24 hours so he took a few pain killers and off to bed he went.
See this is another reason I could never have kids, I sit here at work every time the phone rings I jump up because I am thinking its him and something is wrong, I am sick to my stomach with worry even though I know there is nothing I can do about it. And then I worry about him being in pain because lets face it men can be real babies about stuff like
Oh and when we are sitting in bed I asked him if he was in this much pain in the hospital and why did he not ask for pain killers or to be put under because it hurt so much
"Well I did not want them to think I was a pussy"

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Jonathan said...

Congrats on 600 posts.
But more important, I hope your husband is doing better now. I am sending good thought you all's way.

T-girl said...

LMAO... poor guy, sounds like a boil! I had one once... scared the crap out of me when it popped! Nasty business that was!

Hope you all are feeling better!

Hugs- T

rpm said...

I think you would be a good mommy because of all the worrying you already do about your husband! That's in the mommy job description...but I don't have any "human" children either and I don't want to worry needlessly.

My question is: Do you think nail polish needs to match lipstick? Do shoes and purse need to match?

RWA said...

See? You're special. You're the only one he wants to let know that he is "a pussy."


Patty said...

Worry all you want, that is your right as a wife. DO, however, remember what a miracle our bodies are and that they are designed to take care of things on an as needed basis. If something is coming out of him this is a good thing (like your colon cleansing, remember?). Be thankful it is only goop coming out and not an alien baby or something really gross like that!

Dixie said...

He didn't want them to think he was a pussy! Men. Such babies when it comes to pain, but they try so hard to be tough!

Keep us updated on it!!

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