Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Should I be upset?

I had a dream the other night about a dear friend of mine.

I had flown out for her wedding in Canada in August last year.

Well in the dream she was pregnant. And as soon as I woke up I emailed her to tell her I was thinking about her and to tell her about my dream.

Well she is pregnant. 4 months. And I had no idea.

I am hurt.

I know we are busy, and maybe have not chatted in a while but from the way I look at it, 4 months and no email?

Should I be upset? I am just really bummed she did not bother to tell me before now...

I mean I AM SO EXCITED for her and I cried when I heard but I just feel a little cheated.

Am I over reacting?


Adorably Distracted... said...

I would be upset. There is a difference in just finding out and her being 2 months pregnant then her having known for 3 months or so. If you she had time to use the bathroom she had time to call/text/email.

That's just my opinion though.

Steph said...

I think I would be a little bummed too.

Frugalista said...

I'd be a bit upset too. This is a huge deal and in 4 months she never said anything. She's your friend though....so of course you will have to forgive her but I would be hurt.

Sara said...

It depends on if she was even telling many people yet. She might have told you but you could very well be one of the few who knows. Many women don't start telling their families till the 4th month just in case of miscarriage. So even if she announced it to you as if everyone knew, that might not be the case.

Punk Rock Mom said...

I wouldn't be upset. Some people wait a long time to make sure everything is okay and going well before announcing to anyone.

Crazy Shenanigans said...

I think I would have been a little upset by it. I mean if she hadn't been telling people that would be different but if others knew then, yes my feelings would be hurt.

Jessica said...

I can see why you'd be a little bummed, but try and keep in mind that she may have just started sharing with people. She's probably just now starting to show only a bit and maybe wanted to make sure everything was A-OK first.

Brittany Ann said...

I'd be upset! 4 months is out of the danger zone, and it's time to start telling those you love!

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